{"id":353,"date":"2007-12-13T23:25:00","date_gmt":"2007-12-14T05:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.davintosh.com\/?p=353"},"modified":"2007-12-13T23:25:00","modified_gmt":"2007-12-14T05:25:00","slug":"what-do-you-want-for-christmas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/2007\/12\/13\/what-do-you-want-for-christmas\/family\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;What Do You Want For Christmas?&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Who, me? Oh, not much. I&#8217;m very easy to please. Here&#8217;s a list&#8230; <\/p>\n<li>a two-car garage, <\/li>\n<li>a couple of vehicles that don&#8217;t have acres of rust on them, <\/li>\n<li>a MIG welder, drill press and milling machine, <\/li>\n<li>unlimited funds and sufficient time to finish some of the unfinished projects around the house, <\/li>\n<li>40 pounds off my midsection,<\/li>\n<li>a new MacBook Pro, <\/li>\n<li>a new job,<\/li>\n<li>hair like I had twenty years ago,<\/li>\n<li>a river-side acreage somewhere near Sioux Falls,<\/li>\n<li>time to read and write the way I&#8217;d like to,<\/li>\n<li>a set of bagpipes and lessons, <\/li>\n<li>cello lessons, <\/li>\n<li>etc&#8230;<\/li>\n<p>See? I really am easy to please. But man, do I hate hearing that question. Yes, there are some things I&#8217;d like to receive as gifts for Christmas, but generally when I really <em>need<\/em> something, I buy it for myself. Likewise if I really <em>want<\/em> something that isn&#8217;t too costly; for the costlier items, I bide my time for a windfall of some sort (and permission from the wife) before I buy. But the things that I&#8217;d like to have that I don&#8217;t purchase myself are also too costly to ask someone else to buy for me. Hence the reluctance to answer that question.<\/p>\n<p>Every year for Christmas with Yvonne&#8217;s family we draw names and give gifts that way, and every year I get that question, and every year I have a tough time with it. I don&#8217;t want to throw out costly suggestions and possibly oblige someone to fork out a lot of money on me (although it would be nice), but then again the last thing I need is more <em>stuff;<\/em> clutter is already an issue around our house. <\/p>\n<p>My family dispensed with the gift buying\/giving\/returning thing at our usually annual Thanks-Mas events years ago, and went to a White Elephant Gift Exchange. That has been a blast, with lots of gaudy not so favorites making repeat appearances year after year. I wish we could do that with Yvonne&#8217;s family too, but old traditions are hard to change.<\/p>\n<p>One other hesitation I have about the whole White Elephant thing is that it mocks Christmas in a way; the whole gift giving thing is supposedly to honor the Greatest Gift of All, Jesus Christ, who was God&#8217;s gift to us. So does giving a known rotten gift mock that tradition? I dunno; haven&#8217;t quite made up my mind on that. What I do know is that the White Elephant is a lot of fun, doesn&#8217;t require anyone to spend a ton of money, and doesn&#8217;t (always) add more stuff to my house.<\/p>\n<p>I wrote a while back about the <a href=\"\/?p=320\">World Vision Gift Catalog<\/a>; actually, if someone is going to spend money on a gift for me, I&#8217;d actually rather have them spend it there rather than on me. Or if they really want to give me something, how about dinner <em>with<\/em> them. Doesn&#8217;t need to be anything fancy; just any old thing at your house or my house, along with an evening to converse &amp; catch up.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s not asking too much, is it?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who, me? Oh, not much. I&#8217;m very easy to please. Here&#8217;s a list&#8230; a two-car garage, a couple of vehicles that don&#8217;t have acres of rust on them, a MIG welder, drill press and milling machine, unlimited funds and sufficient time to finish some of the unfinished projects around the house, 40 pounds off my [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-fun"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=353"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/353\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davintosh.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}